Archive for the ‘Marriage’ Category

It’s common seeing relationships that start in the moderate heat of the immature enthusiasm of youth and drag themselves at a warm temperature for years. It’s of the youths to have a short vision of the future, for the simple fact that they lack experience and knowledge, although theoretically they should have easier access to passion. However, passion requires maturity.

Like a fire of straws, shallow and weak, juveniles enchantments vanish to leave place to a daily “liking”, to reciprocal affection and habit. Mostly more habit than real liking, for when one wants the good of somebody else they may go through be a conflict about their trivial interests. Bargaining, that’s how many relationships really are.

And what about that joy that makes you hopping with happiness when near the loved one? And the charm, the discovery? Where is the eyes full of admiration and pride for the other? Read the rest of this entry »

We always love the right person, although she or he may not be the right person for our life, or for the rest of our life, or even the right person to make blossom the best of us.

We always love the right person, and he or she is always prince charming or the beautiful princess, although he or she may be so only for one hour, one day or one year. The rest of the time together is gained thanks to the revenue generated by that nurturing moment of love.

There’s always an important reason to love a person, and I mean “love” in a wide and general sense. I’m not necessarily talking about the faithful and consistent love, firm and conscious, but about whatever love that can at least resist to some turbulence. The Read the rest of this entry »