Archive for the ‘Feelings’ Category

It’s common seeing relationships that start in the moderate heat of the immature enthusiasm of youth and drag themselves at a warm temperature for years. It’s of the youths to have a short vision of the future, for the simple fact that they lack experience and knowledge, although theoretically they should have easier access to passion. However, passion requires maturity.

Like a fire of straws, shallow and weak, juveniles enchantments vanish to leave place to a daily “liking”, to reciprocal affection and habit. Mostly more habit than real liking, for when one wants the good of somebody else they may go through be a conflict about their trivial interests. Bargaining, that’s how many relationships really are.

And what about that joy that makes you hopping with happiness when near the loved one? And the charm, the discovery? Where is the eyes full of admiration and pride for the other? Read the rest of this entry »

When one is a child, one lives immersed in the family ambience. For the ones who were lucky, this ambience emanates warm sympathy. Although there might be moments of tension, fights and misunderstanding, family fulfills the basic need of being part of a community; it’s a small group in which one can feel “at home”, where one is known and knows.

Each family has its own characteristic style, which is like a mark of its existence, a style created by its members but certainly mostly imprinted by the parents. Memories of fun time and experiences make the affective richness that nourishes a group from within, and grants it its survival, in spite of the harsh rocks against which relationships are thrown when they fell in the sea of incomprehension.
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Caught in a vicious circle, the envious is left to undermine other person’s life. And she will do so in the most subtle, ambiguous and hidden way. As camouflaged as her real feeling is. … Read on

Envious people never declare what they really feel. Envy is a feeling one is ashamed of. Also the envious cannot recognize the values she sees in the other person, except in a superficial way that means nothing, like noticing that the sky is blue and there is a tree in the park. No value is actually acknowledged, unless is inevitable. … Read on